He Made Eye Contact

This guy in college made eye contact every time we pass by each other & he smiles at me sometimes.once he gave me a very wide smile thinking I was smiling at him & his friend asked him to talk to me but he didn’t.

One day an other friend of that guy was telling it to his group that i have beautiful eyes this guy was there & he immediately interfered saying I was his(i’m senior to the guy who said i have beautiful eyes) senior.After that I heard them tease him when I walk by but that was only once & they started staring at me.

Because this guy never spoke to me I stopped looking at him.but then he started to try & make eye contact.he started to come in the same bus for some days & tried to touch me a few times but not in a bad way(just over my head maybe to make me look at him).& once I thought I saw him ask his friend(my classmate)to introduce him to me but my classmate didn’t.

towards the end when our course was ending i saw him come towards me to talk but suddenly went in different direction and the next day when i was leaving he was standing opposite looking at me smiling and when i looked in different direction he moved a bit away.

Now even after nearly a year has passed since finishing the college i sometimes wonder about it.could he still like me?

Me and my boyfriend been having problems about not seeing each other and spending time to because neither of us never set up the time and date to spend quality time because we have not seen or heard from each other for a while and its hard because I miss him a lot because I go to school and he started working and been going to school a lot and we have not contact.

Sunday, I facebook him telling him that its not working, I haven’t heard or seen him for a long time but not only that, I wanted to protect him from my family drama but I had changed my mind and we end up having a little problem but then we were all good, we were still together.

Until later that night, he blocked me on facebook out of no where, so I called him up twice but he didn’t answer his phone, he end up texting me saying that we should be friends and I started to worried, I said “why? I’m sorry the way I was acting please don’t”, then I said if “you don’t want to be with me then say it” then he said ” yo I just need to chill” me ” you never call or text me” he said ” I don’t want your ma bitching at you” I asked what’s the problem then? You don’t love me no more? Then he said ” I do, but I need time to think” I gotta go, I gotta go to bed for work” then I said “okay” but he never said I love you or say good night to me. I called my best friend and she said that she has been through this before, he has another girl aside, I got really upset, text him this ” you know what, I know you got another girl, I know you’re seeing somebody else that’s why you wanna break” but you don’t to think about it, its over, we’re done, peace out and then I broke down crying.

But I still want to be with him, we only been together for four months but we knew each other when I was 14 and him 15 years old plus we have dated before but it lasted three weeks cause we weren’t allowed to see each other anymore but six years later I found him a day before my 20th birthday and a month before his 21st birthday so we been together for four months.

I called him last night and left him a voice mail saying that I’m sorry about everything, you were right, if you want to talk please let me know, if you don’t want to speak to me ever again, I will understand, but think about and let me know” then I give him my number, and now I’m waiting for him to reply cause it has been three or four days now.

My biggest fear that I might lose him again like I did before six years ago and I do not want that to happen ever again. I love him and he loves me too, he said that we’re going to be together forever, wants to marry me, have three children with a house together. He means so much to me, if I lose him once again I don’t know what to do with myself. I love him and I want to be with him for the rest of my life and I cry and pray for him to come back to me..

No one can be certain if you have made some bad choices in relationships until you see its ending.  After the events it is so easy to look back and think about what you should have done, there is always someone who is willing to point out all the things you could of, or should of done.

Like many things relationship advice is easy to give but hard to live by.

Being in a relationship is a risk, a risk to be hurt or to be loved. I think the question should be, not if you have made the right or wrong choices in relationship but if you have made the right or wrong choices of person to be with you in a relationship.

To be in a relationship there has to be 2 of you, so no matter how good you are, if the other person isn’t as committed or they have hidden problems then you are pretty much doomed as a couple.

Even if you, for example, personally don’t want  to be in long distance relationship but if you have found someone who thinks they can prove to you that long distance relationship do survive, and you believe that they are right then you could try it.

However if you do make the choice to stay in a long distance relationship then you must do all you can to make it work. Entering into anything with only half your heart is sure to bring disaster with it, this especially applies to relationships where you are separated by thousands of miles.

choices in relationships

People make choices in relationships. Some people choose to love someone who then chooses someone else to love.  While some people would rather choose to love someone who loves them even if they’re not sure that they can learn to love them back.

The choices you make at the beginning of your relationship will affect the way it develops and if you are with the person for a long time they could well affect every aspect of your life.

There are sometimes extra-ordinary choices in relationships too like the so-called May-December love affair. Choosing to love someone you know who will almost certainly die before you can carry its own set of challenges.

You will almost certainly reacha  point where  it no longer matter if you have made the wrong choices in your relationship. What’s important is you are happy with that decision because you believe you have found the right person.

If you are unsure about anything in your relationship make sure that you deal with it before you make any serious commitment. Your wedding day or after the delivery of a baby is not the right time to mention to your husband or wife that you may have made the wrong choice.