Insecurity In Relationships
Insecurity In Relationships
Almost everyone treat jealousy as a sign of affection of a loved one, while actually, it isn’t. It’s a sign of insecurity in relationships.
Why do we get jealous in the first place? It’s because we fear that our loved one will leave us and choose another. That he had enough of you but you’re still not good enough for him. And there are other reasons for insecurity in relationships that may be any of the following factors:
Lack of self confidence or self-esteem – Your partner may have flaws or incapacity that make her feel as an inadequate person. She might not see the beauty on her own way. Again, nobody’s perfect, everyone has its own flaws. And this is one reality that you have to remind your partner with.
A bad track record of infidelity – Your partner may have known that you used to be a polygamous guy. Well, you can’t blame her for that, especially if she’s still seeing you glancing on other girls and have caught you doing things behind her back.
A lot of pretty faces – This universe can sometimes be heavenly when you see a lot of gorgeous men and women walking down the streets. You can’t help but think, “Am I with the wrong one?” .
Some people seem to live by the mantra of “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence”. This can cause confusion in a relationship especially if you are in a long distance relationship or one where you work different shifts and don’t get a lot of time to be together.
To lessen your insecurity in relationships, you could try to make yourself look better, be a little bit vain. Learn to pamper and care for yourself more than you used to. If your partner sees people looking admiringly at you then they are going to realize they have to toe the line or they could get kicked to the touch line.
And most importantly, get rid of that negative perception you have of yourself. You are special, otherwise your partner wouldn’t have picked you in the first place.
When you feel good inside and out, you can face your lover with confidence and conviction that he would never have to leave your side. It would also help if your partner can give a reassuring feeling by showing that he is truly committed to you and to the relationship.
Jealousy in a relationship will almost certainly destroy it little by little, when we were all teenagers it seemed normal to want to hold our boyfriend or girlfriend very close. You are taught from a young age to guard precious things and keep them close to you.
As you get older and your emotions mature then you can give your loved ones the freedome they need to grow. This shows maturity and if you grow together then there is no need for any insecurity.
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we’ve been to gether for 6 morths and we just discoverd that am pregnet and now my family wants to know him. I also want the same thing that now the baby is here I want to get to know his family too. But the problem is that he knows half of my family but I dont know any of his family and he’s not making any effort to take me to his house and introduse me to them. am a family kind of a person and I would like for my family and his to know each other beter. if i dont get to know them now what about when the baby is born. plaese help?.
my son is in a relationship with a women who has six children of her own. He feels that is it his duty to give this women all of his paycheck to support her family, while she gives him want she feels he should have in the money game. Although, they have been living togeather for nine months now, I would like to know if he is in a insecurity relationship, or is he co depended?
@linah: wow! I have been in a relationship for 6 mo and he hangs with me and my grown children but has not mentioned me meeting his so I wonder why this man has not introduced you to his family and yes you are having a baby the familys should meet? There is a lot of unknowns like is he not proud of his family? I need help too
Well, Im in a relationship with a woman who is goin on 38 and has five of her oen. Her sister is three years younger than my wife and she a cheater. So, when the times comes when they get together and decide to go out its hard for me to have trust. She has an mind of her own I know but I’ve been in situations to where her 22yr old may try and hook her up immature as its sounds. I love her till death due us part but, Its hard for me to give her a 100% trust, more like 97% Help a strong man resolve the situation s I dont want to destroy my relationship.
In time she will figure out the right thing to do….. I f you can than talk to her and tell her how you feel….. I would just lay low unless things get out of hand…… Trust her to do the right thing because you wouldn’t want her to think that you are trying to boss her around when really your just trying to help her.
I totally agree with you! You should probably check up on him because he may do something he regrets…… But be calm while doing this because sometimes people get the wrong idea about people helping or checking up on them….. Good Luck!