Comments on: Long Distance Relationship Advice

By: Joan Agingu

Joan Agingu — Fri, 26 Aug 2011 13:12:18 +0000

This a great advice to me since am involved in a long distance relationship. but what gives me alot of in this is that i have got enough space to concentrate in my studies and him on his job. Though at times i miss him a lot.

By: Kassy

Kassy — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 16:52:49 +0000

Ask him if what he said to your “friend” is true . & if it is then maybe its time to move on because why would you want to be with somebody that thinks your annoying ? you need someone who likes you for who you are .

By: Jeiryn

Jeiryn — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 02:09:08 +0000

@becca:

Hi becca. I know its been tough but you really have to think about your future. What makes you happy. I know its hard because he’s letting you choose between him and your brother. I know you wanna help your brother but is your brother helping himself and helping you? How old is your brother? You said he has a girlfriend so it means he’s old enough and knows how to be responsible. He should learn to be independent and stop depending on you. He should understand that you have a family of your own and your trying to save your family. If your brother loves you, he will understand. I know you’re trying to be a good sister to him. Believe me… I also have a younger brother. We can be there for them and guide them but not all the time. We should learn to let go of them and let them learn on their own. Even his girlfriend is not your responsibility. Just make him understand. about the guy, if he also loves you, he should also understand your situation with your brother. You should all talk about it and compromise. First you have to solve your issues with your brother then your guy. What was the reason why your guy wanted to kick your brother out of the house? maybe your guy is just concern about you and that wanted your brother to live his life but not depending on you. Family will always be family. Even if you guys fight all the time, but eventually you’ll still be a family but true love? only comes once. So think what really makes you happy. Think who makes you happy and who is important to you.

By: Jeiryn

Jeiryn — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 01:46:58 +0000

@Viviana Valeriano: Just ignore him. You made your point that you're in love with your boyfriend. Try to block him in your emails so that you won't receive any of his messages and he can't sent you any messages. Because if your boyfriend for 3 years and 6 months finds out about it, he might get mad and put your relationship at risks. Your ex is not worth your time. If you're happy with you current/present boyfriend, then focus on him.

By: annabel

annabel — Sun, 03 Jul 2011 00:29:42 +0000

@Viviana Valeriano: i think you should tell him-your ex, that uve moved on and you dont need him anymore;if he insists,then tell your boyfriend! goodluck

By: Fuzzy Logic

Fuzzy Logic — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 17:36:40 +0000

@Viviana Valeriano: As a note, you are in control of any romantic situation you get involved with. The circumstance is your choice. Do you want to stay faithful to your boyfriend or cheat and sleep with your ex. The core of this is your own moral integrity. Although, if you cheat on your boyfriend, sleep with your ex, mess around with an involved or married man; then it is safe to say you have no core moral values and in the end you have forsaken any relationships you have become involved in. Nonetheless the decision is always yours, it would behoove you to choose wisely.

By: twista

twista — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 12:26:09 +0000

hi i am really confussed at the moment.my partner and i have been together for 3 and a half years and have a daughter togther who is 1.he asked me 4 days before christmas if i would like to move to qld i said yeah thinking he wasnt being so serious.and eventually he moved up and is living with his uncle.its been nearly 3 months since his left im finding it really hard to cope without him we argue all the time.when i ask him to come and visit he said he will never come back to sydney.now im in 2 minds whether to move there like he planned on or stay here.please help me

By: Scarlett johnson

Scarlett johnson — Sat, 26 Feb 2011 21:51:17 +0000

I have a crush, and we got into a fight this past weekend and i pretended to be my friend texting him from my phone and he said i was annoying and that he was mad because he heard me tell someone i didnt like him, but i think im in love with him, but now im afraid our freindship and our chances of ever dating (he likes\ed me back) are ruined and i don’t know what on earth to do.

By: sylvia

sylvia — Sat, 19 Feb 2011 01:10:40 +0000

If you really had NO feelings about the ex, you wouldn’t have answered at all…..I’m not saying you’re in love, maybe just flattered….an ego booster.

By: Dylan

Dylan — Sun, 31 Oct 2010 06:39:48 +0000

Hey I have a relationship problem. This girl I liked played me twice. She doesn’t realize my pain. She feeds off it and yet she pretends everything is all good and when I try to tell her how I feel I become the bad guy. When I first met her we started seeing each other not necessarily dating but getting close to it. One night after a few dates she holds my hands, looks me in the eyes and says Dylan do you know how much I like you. The next day she texts me I was so happy and then her text said I wasn’t ready to tell you all that. She had lied to my face, and she ignored me at school the whole day.. Finally all the conflict blew off and she says Dylan I still like you and asks me on a date that upcoming Friday. I agree and remember that during our conflict my best-friend told me that the girl liked someone. In which I called her and asked her about it she explains that the guy was simple a brother to her nothing more. Relieved I got off the phone and was happier. Later that night she was asked out by the guy and wasn’t going to tell me. Their dating I found out through a friend… She doesn’t think she has done anything wrong, yet she has ripped a part of my heart.