Almost everyone treat jealousy as a sign of affection of a loved one, while actually, it isn’t.  It’s a sign of insecurity in relationships.

Why do we get jealous in the first place? It’s because we fear that our loved one will leave us and choose another.  That he had enough of you but you’re still not good enough for him.  And there are other reasons for insecurity in relationships that may be any of the following factors:

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Lack of self confidence or self-esteem – Your partner may have flaws or incapacity that make her feel as an inadequate person.  She might not see the beauty on her own way. Again, nobody’s perfect, everyone has its own flaws. And this is one reality that you have to remind your partner with.

A bad track record of infidelity – Your partner may have known that you used to be a polygamous guy. Well, you can’t blame her for that, especially if she’s still seeing you glancing on other girls and have caught you doing things behind her back.

A lot of pretty faces – This universe can sometimes be heavenly when you see a lot of gorgeous men and women walking down the streets.  You can’t help but think, “Am I with the wrong one?” .
Some people seem to live by the mantra of “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence”.  This can cause confusion in a relationship especially if you are in a long distance relationship or one where you work different shifts and don’t get a lot of time to be together.

To lessen your insecurity in relationships, you could try to make yourself look better, be a little bit vain. Learn to pamper and care for yourself more than you used to. If your partner sees people looking admiringly at you then they are going to realize they have to toe the line or they could get kicked to the touch line.

And most importantly, get rid of that negative perception you have of yourself. You are special, otherwise your partner wouldn’t have picked you in the first place.

When you feel good inside and out, you can face your lover with confidence and conviction that he would never have to leave your side.  It would also help if your partner can give a reassuring feeling by showing that he is truly committed to you and to the relationship.

Jealousy in a relationship will almost certainly destroy it little by little, when we were all teenagers it seemed normal to want to hold our boyfriend or girlfriend very close. You are taught from a young age to guard precious things and keep them close to you.

As you get older and your emotions mature then you can give your loved ones the freedome they need to grow. This shows maturity and if you grow together then there is no need for any insecurity.

Women should not stay stuck in a relationship that they no longer enjoy.  Just because you love a person so much would mean you would have to take the hurts and the abuse of that relationship.  You would need to know when too much is too much.

This relationship advice for women intends to recover the dignity of some who had lost it. Please read and check the situations you need to avoid:

Don’t allow yourself to be a second-woman. It is not morally right to love a married man, more so, to break a family. You deserve a man who can love you fully and not half-heartedly.

Don’t allow any physical, emotional and mental abuse.  Many women today, even celebrities are getting physical violence from those men who were supposed to love them. Men are also becoming popular using hidden videos of sexual activities as blackmail. Women were long perceived to be weaklings. It’s high time to show that you can protect yourself from all these abuses. Fight for your safety, allow the law to implement them.

Don’t allow yourself to be a sugar-mommy. You tend to be compassionate especially for the man you love. How would you know that he was sticking with you for the same reason? If you want to help a person, don’t give him a fish, instead teach him how to fish.

There’s a clear, thick line between an unfortunate man and a lazy man.